Thursday, December 16, 2010
The Two Extremes
I have two sons, ages 8 and 10. Cameron, My 8 year old is loud, wild, troublemaker. Curtis, My 10 year old is sweet, talkative and caring, childish. Cameron gets into trouble from time to time at school, Curtis never. Cameron huffs and puffs when given directions, Curtis loves directions and helping. Curtis outlook is positive Camerons negative. If I could describe my children to you, I'd call them Steve Urkel and Mike Tyson. I have yet to learn how to balance these personalities. After a stressful call from Camerons teacher its hard for me to transition my mind to the joy of Curtis' day. Of course I ask him but my mind is elsewhere. Its on how can I change this boys attitude (Cameron) I've come to realize how I'm giving Cameron SO MUCH attention and because Curtis can handle himself, he gets little to none. I have yet to figure out how to deal with these extremes and keep my sanity, but I'm working towards that. I've decided to take Curtis to Toy Story on Ice in January. Him and I have never been on an outing alone and I know we'll both enjoy it. So I'm learning as I go and I hope its not to late to show Curtis that he's just as important as Cameron even though I may not show it enough. Starting 2011, we will have alone time, both boys so I can give them the individual attention they crave.
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There could be a side benefit- when Cameron sees that Curtis is getting positive attention for the good choices he makes, that could have an impact.
ReplyDeleteDid you ever read highlights magazine? There was always a "Goofus and Gallant" cartoon- your descriptions remind me of them!